The Ass Of Doom

It’s no secret that women are a mystery. What makes them tick? How does a guy grab the attention of a girl he’s interested in? Why is talking to a girl for the first time so difficult? If you’re like most men, you’ve probably encountered these questions before.

You’re probably reading this article because you’ve met a girl (or two) that you’re attracted to, and you’d like to bring that attraction to a physical level. So let’s just get right to it.

One of the best techniques to have women climbing over each other to get to you is called sexual attraction. Basically it’s an intense physical connection between you and the woman.

You may have heard someone say they “hit it off” or “had great chemistry” with a significant other. What they were really saying was that the couple is experiencing sexual attraction. Most guys fail at seduction or the “close” by going straight for the kill, completely bypassing that special connection that needs to be built. In the end, they’re going to be sleeping alone tonight.

If you can manage to make a woman feel comfortable in your presence, she’ll naturally gravitate towards you, and if you want that to happen to you, read on.

Step #1 – Relax and Breathe.

This is really important. Before you go out, take a breath, relax and try to put yourself in a cheerful mood. Approach the situation as a relaxed night of meeting others, and don’t try to put expectations on it. Of course you would welcome the chance to hook up, but realize that it’s not the end of the world if you don’t. Also, be honest with yourself and know what you’re after when you go out. That way it’s easier to find the girl that you want instead of wasting time with women you will not connect with.

Take in your surroundings and have fun. Enjoy the conversation with your buddies. Grab a couple of drinks, and listen to the music. How you feel inside is going to show on the outside, so make sure it’s something that women want to see… calm, cool and collected. If you’re having a good time and you’re just being yourself it’s a heck of a lot easier to emit confidence… and believe me, the women will take notice.

Step #2 – Stay Positive.

You don’t want to be a downer. People will respond to the energy that you put off, so make sure it’s positive and upbeat. Think about some of the more negative people in your life. How do you feel when they come at you frowning and complaining? You most likely notice this negativity right away and it will change how you look at that person. Always remember to project what you want people to think of you.

Never forget that women are the more emotional of the two sexes, and they want a man who’s going to make them forget about their worries. By remaining upbeat, energetic, and exciting, you’ll do just that. Just the same, your buddies don’t want to be around a downer either, so get out of your funk and cheer up.

Stay positive and upbeat and you’ll be the guy that everyone likes.

Step #3 – Have confidence.

It’s been said that nothing is sexier than confidence, and there’s a reason why it’s a cliche. Everyone has witnessed the “The Guy.” He’s the one who’s fat, bald, and looks like he got dressed in the dark, but for some reason, women are all over him. He probably doesn’t have anything you don’t (unless he’s rich or something… but that’s a different site) but what separates him from the rest of the crowd is confidence.

He knows his worth, and he believes it with all of his actions. As a result, all people (but especially women) can’t get enough. You can give off this same sense of presence just by getting to know yourself and learning what you’re good at, and what you’re bad at. Don’t like what someone is saying? Speak up! Try to be a part of the conversation and show that you have something useful to say. Don’t be afraid to look at how you act around women… doing a little self analyzation can go a long way. Building confidence with women can take some time, but it’s well worth it.

A little confidence can take you very far.

Step #4 – Use your energy.

As I said earlier, you can emit both positive and negative energy, but when dealing with women, you must remain positive. Smile, crack jokes, and don’t take life too seriously. As a result, women will be naturally attracted to you.

Similarly, if you’re in a bad mood that you’re unable to break, just don’t go out that night. If you do hit the town, you shouldn’t approach women until you’re feeling better. Try focusing on what’s going well in your life and refer back to #2.

Never forget that emotions and actions are contagious. This applies to everyday life and not just seducing women or creating sexual attraction.

Now get out there, have a blast, and meet some women!